Root of All Evil

Good morning, brothers and sisters!

My sermon this morning will be about the well-worn phrase “the love of money is the root of all evil.”

The source of this phrase is the Book of Timothy, written about 65 years after the death of Jesus (circa 64 AD).

Timothy was wrong.

The love of money is not the root of all evil.

ANGER is the root of all evil.

First, it just makes sense.

Humans had anger long before money was even a concept.

As far as roots go, anger runs much deeper.

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One of the first stories in the Bible, long before Timothy, is about the brutal murder of Abel by his brother Cain.

Fratricide!

It doesn’t get much more evil than that.

When looking for the source of this evil, let’s examine the evidence:

The Bible plainly states that Cain was angry before he killed Abel. [1]

Cain and Abel each made an offering to God.

God favored Abel’s offering.

This pissed off Cain, and he became angry, angry enough to murder his brother.

“But unto Cain and to his offering he had not respect. And Cain was very wroth, and his countenance fell.”[2]

Other translations say:

• “Cain was very angry, and his face was downcast.” [3]

• “Cain was very angry, and his face fell.” [4]

Before the murder, God speaks directly to Cain:

“Why are you angry? And why has your face fallen?

If you do well, will you not be accepted?”

This is important: the text portrays Cain’s anger as something about which God warns Cain — something he is responsible for mastering.

Cain heard, but he didn’t listen.

In fairness, we can’t overlook the fact that his parents had screwed up big time in the Garden of Eden, bad enough to be kicked out permanently.

Should we expect more sophisticated behavior from Cain?

Perhaps our analysis of anger will lead us to the conclusion that it is inbred.

I believe we will discover, rather, that we can control our anger.

It is so deeply embedded in our collective unconscious, however, that it may be a challenge.

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To borrow a phrase from Yoko Ono, “Imagine a world with no angry people.”

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“And Cain rose up against Abel his brother, and slew him.”[5]

The narrative makes anger central to the episode and frames it as a moral crossroads: emotion → warning → choice → action.

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If we are to rid the world of evil, we must focus on anger, not the love of money.

The love of money can be a problem, but anger is at the root of all conflict between humans: verbal abuse, bar fights, domestic violence, parental abuse, litigation, wars.

This will be a series of sermons/articles about anger.

While researching my files and preparing to write, I discovered that I already had a good one.

Why not share that for starters?

Posted in Psychology Today [6]:

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Mastering Anger

Seven powerful steps to transform your difficult emotions.

Posted November 17, 2024 |  Reviewed by Jessica Schrader

Key points

• Acknowledge your anger without judgment to regain control and calm yourself.

• Analyze situations that provoke anger to understand emotional patterns and triggers.

• Identify the underlying needs fueling your anger to gain clarity and intention.

Anger is a deeply human emotion that arises frequently in our lives.

Often, it serves as a shield, concealing more vulnerable feelings like fear, shame, rejection, and helplessness.

Behind anger lies (sic.) needs and emotions such as feeling dismissed, disrespected, or powerless, which amplify our responses to perceived injustices.

Uncovering and addressing these emotions can transform anger into a pathway for peace and growth.

Here are seven powerful steps to master anger and transform it constructively.

Seven Powerful Steps to Master Anger

1. Recognize and Accept Your Anger

Acknowledging your anger is the essential first step.

When you recognize your anger without judgment, you create the space needed to regain control.

Anger often manifests through physical, mental, and emotional cues: tense muscles, racing thoughts, or a surge of energy demanding action.

By identifying these cues, you can interrupt anger’s progression.

Calming techniques like diaphragmatic breathing—focusing on slow, deep breaths from your abdomen—and physical activity can also help you regain composure.

Additionally, try venting in a private journal or unsent letter,[7] allowing you to release emotions safely and without consequence.

2. Reflect on Triggers and Emotional Patterns

Once calm, analyze the situation that triggered your anger.

Reflect on why it felt unfair or upsetting and examine your reaction.

This process deepens self-awareness, helping you pinpoint personal triggers and better understand the root of your emotional responses.

Journaling and writing down these reflections can be powerful, slowing your thoughts and allowing constructive insight.

It also promotes the ability to identify destructive patterns and correct them.

This self-knowledge equips you to approach similar future situations with greater control and clarity.

3. Affirm Your Worth and Reinforce Self-Respect

Feelings of disrespect or injustice often accompany anger.

Use these challenging moments to affirm your self-worth and remind yourself that you are loved and respected innately—regardless of other people's behaviors toward you.

This affirmation builds inner strength, empowering you to feel secure without relying on others’ approval.

Recognizing your intrinsic value reinforces resilience, helping you face conflicts with calm and self-assuredness.

This inner validation becomes a shield, preventing minor irritations from escalating into anger.

4. Identify the Unmet Needs Fueling Your Anger

Understanding anger requires identifying the unmet needs driving it.

Is it a need for respect, understanding, or appreciation?

Recognizing these needs allows you to transition from reaction to intention, clarifying what you genuinely want from the situation.

If, for example, you feel disrespected, it may be time to assert your boundaries or communicate openly about your feelings.

This step provides a foundation for addressing future situations proactively, and with the intention of becoming your best self, toward what is good and valuable.

5. Take Proactive Steps to Fulfill Your Needs

After identifying your needs, take action to meet them.

Seek environments or roles where your contributions are valued, or develop skills that bolster your sense of purpose and respect.

Growth is gradual, so celebrate small wins as you work toward fulfilling these needs.

By taking intentional actions, you lay a foundation for interpreting situations with a new perspective, allowing a shift from reactionary anger to a proactive stance, which is more mindful and calmer.

6. Consider the Perspective of Others

With a secure understanding of your needs, broaden your view to include others’ perspectives.

Often, others’ actions stem from their own unmet needs or personal stressors.

Justice reflects the belief that everyone’s needs are equally valid and should be given equal consideration.

To be just is to fully consider the perspectives of other people—to put ourselves in another person’s shoes.

By recognizing this, you reduce anger’s intensity and gain a balanced understanding of the situation.

This approach fosters empathy, enhancing personal growth and promoting healthier interactions.

Expanding your viewpoint transforms anger into an opportunity for understanding, opening paths to improved relationships and compassion.

7. Release Anger Through Forgiveness

Forgiveness is the final and most liberating step in anger management.

To forgive is to let go of a grievance you hold against someone.  

Forgiveness isn’t about excusing harmful behavior; it’s about freeing yourself from past pain and letting go.

True forgiveness involves three aspects: accepting what happened, acknowledging your growth, and wishing healing for the other person.

Forgiveness is a powerful remedy to anger.

This act allows you to release lingering bitterness, creating space for peace and positivity.

By letting go, you affirm your strength, compassion, and resilience.

Conclusion: Turning Anger Into Personal Growth

These seven steps not only guide you in managing anger but also enable you to transform it into personal growth and inner peace.

With time, patience, and practice, you’ll find yourself handling challenges with a sense of maturity, balance, and wisdom.

As reactive anger decreases and calm increases, you’ll approach difficult situations with greater intention and understanding. Embracing this journey will enrich your relationships, deepen your self-awareness, and foster a greater appreciation of yourself and others.

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Anger is a big topic and one worth our time. 

As we discover it further, please don’t forget to tithe! 

The cost of toner is going through the roof!

Say, “Yes and Amen.”

[1] (Genesis 4:3–8).

[2] (Genesis 4:5, KJV)

[3] (NIV)

[4] (ESV)

[5] (Genesis 4:8)

[6] Only some of the formatting has been changed.

[7] I recommend these techniques to almost all of my coaching clients.